The most common thread I hear from men is a longing for connection. I’m not talking about casual friends, acquaintances or hookups. Rather, I’m talking about true, real connection with another human. True connection is hard. It requires us to be our genuine self. We have to come into connection with all our doubts, our perceived weaknesses and our humility. When we come into connection as our true selves with all our vulnerabilities and simply love and expect absolutely nothing in return magic can happen.