Sometimes I just have to share a personal experience. Last night I masturbated (I know, big surprise!) I really make a point to go real slow. One of the things I often mention during masturbation coaching is that the slower you go up the incline of erotic excitement, the more potential there is for erotic trance, and the easier it is to simply enjoy the erotic charge rather than have to concern yourself about not cumming.
Anyway, I took a good hour plus to get myself charged. Using a 1 to 10 scale, I took about 90 minutes to get from starting to close to a 10. I was very slow and deliberate. I soon found myself in that delicious erotic trance space – where I’m simply erotically charged and not really aware of anything else. I wasn’t trying NOT to cum – there simply wasn’t any overwhelming need to cum. I also love this place, because my mind clears and I really feel focused and present.
After more time of this blissed out trance, I was feeling pretty full inside and felt the need to cum. I was doing nice long, slow strokes and had this amazing ejaculation onto my leg which felt great. Immediately I knew I had to keep going – I wasn’t done! I kept the strokes at the same deliberate pace and after about another 2 or 3 minutes let out another big load accompanied with a truly satisfying orgasm.
After two of these I thought I must be done and stopped stroking for a minute or so. But I noticed that tingling feeling from deep inside was telling me that I was ready for more. So I started up the stroking again. After another five minutes or so of stroking I had another orgasm and ejaculation. This ejaculation wasn’t nearly as much as the others, but still was greatly satisfying.
After this third orgasm, I finally felt that I was done and sat in cum covered bliss for a few minutes!
I switch between using Albolene or massage oil as lube. This evening I was using massage oil. I think I’m going to be using the massage oil more. Albolene is great for masturbation, but gets really sticky when mixed with cum. The oil kept its consistency after cumming and I didn’t have to break my pattern to deal with sticky lube – that really helped keep the pace going.