March 22, 2013

An Experience at Mindful Self Loving

msl-aftermath-0318I arrived Monday evening a bit later than I wanted. I was running around all afternoon and by the time I got things packed for the class and arrived I was feeling a bit low on energy. A few guys were already in the room at Eros and more arrived over the next 15 minutes.

As I was preping the guys on listening to their bodies, I was acutely aware that I really needed to listen to my own advice and listen to mine too. I could feel the tension in my neck and really enjoyed the self massage. My own touch felt so soothing and relaxing and I could begin to feel some of the stress of the day fade away.

There were six guys there for the class – a little on the low end. I’ve had as many as 18 and as few as three. The guys there seemed to represent a wide cross section of the decades – 20’s though 60’s. I really liked the mixture because I believe that the generations have much to teach and remind each other about.

I began the undressing part of the evening. I like to be very intentional about the group undressing; some of us are apprehensive about nudity while others may not give it any thought at all. The undressing ritual was very inward focused – helping each man feel his own body as we were undressing.

As I was undressing, I also felt my erotic energy coming on a bit. The self relaxation and slowing down helped me begin to connect with my erotic self. As I felt more at ease I also felt my erotic energy stirring more. At some point during most classes my attention shifts from conducting the class into my personal journey for the evening. This evening the energy from the men attending felt really sweet and I was able to let go of conducting earlier than I usually do.

I was noticing that all of the men were going an amazing job of interacting with each other while also respecting each other’s personal space and boundaries. The energy exchange going on in that room was amazing! I loved watching the facial expression of the men encouraging the others in the group.

After about an hour of this sensual bliss every man had cum. Each of us on our own time shot on a sheet that I bring. As we were completing the evening I asked if the men wanted to share anything about the experience; several commented on the extensively cum stained sheet being a great holder of our collective energies. I couldn’t agree more!


8 Comments on “An Experience at Mindful Self Loving

March 30, 2013 at 1:11 am

I think the services you offer are so important and am impressed with your insight and compassion. I’m amazed that something like this isn’t offered in the LA area. Do you have any referrals for the LA region?


April 1, 2013 at 10:55 am

Thanks for the kind words. Unfortunately I don’t know anyone in the LA area I can recommend.

May 20, 2013 at 10:52 am

I also wish there was something like your “Mindful Self-Loving” here in LA. Perhaps, you could come to LA and do a session for or with us, or, alternatively, train (?groom) someone to fill that role locally.

May 23, 2013 at 10:27 am

I’m not aware of anything similar in LA, but I’ve gotten several requests to come there to offer the workshop. I may have to do that during my next visit.

August 7, 2013 at 11:40 pm

Are you still holding the class on Mondays?

September 3, 2013 at 1:27 pm

I’m taking a break from the class now. Hope to bring it back soon.

April 2, 2014 at 7:26 pm

If you ever have the class again could you let me know?

April 24, 2014 at 7:52 am

I will!


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