Monthly Archives: May 2012

The Power of ‘And’ & the Tyranny of ‘Or’

I’m in an afterglow today after an amazing evening of heart centered play, connection and energy exchange. Today I’m struck by by the powerful feeling of masculine play. As boys we learn how to interact and play with others. We learn about the value of masculine play. As adults, however, it’s all to easy for […]

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Whatever Happened to Love Thy Neighbor?

Here we go again. And right after I wrote about religion and spirituality. Another pastor sharing the love of Jesus by advocating that all queer people should be locked up in electrified pens. And I wonder why I’m getting more radical as I get older? I vividly remember this kind of shit back in the […]

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Religion and Spritiuality

Throughout history many people have been hurt in the name of religion. Of course this also includes many queer people. While I make no excuses for the hurt and pain inflicted on people in the name of religion, I also feel that we can all too easily dismiss the benefits of a spiritual path because […]

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May is National Masturbation Month

Best I can tell National Masturbation Month was started by Good Vibrations back in 1995. According to the GV website: Earlier that year, then-Surgeon General Dr. Joycelyn Elders was fired for saying that masturbation should be discussed as part of young peoples’ sex education. We were astounded. It was one of the most sensible things we’d […]

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