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Sacred Touch for Men

Relax your body. Reclaim your pleasure. Find your passion.


Learn By Experience

A fundamental premise of the School is that learning happens from experiences in your body. You can read about enhancing your erotic life; however, real learning occurs when you experience it for yourself. Each video has a worksheet with suggested practice exercises and information you can use off-line.


Sacred Touch School

I get a lot of emails from men looking for erotic coaching but don’t live in the San Francisco area. So, I originally started the video library to reach men who may not be able to come in for personal sessions.

The response to these videos has been overwhelming! So, I’m excited to present Sacred Touch School!!

Sacred Touch School is just getting started. We already have over 5 hours of video instruction for men and women. Also, all of the new videos are accompanied with a worksheet with more background and practice ideas. Also, many of the videos are available for download to your iPod.

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I’ve developed a series of explicit educational videos for The New School of Erotic Touch showing men ways to access profound erotic states through a solo practice. Most men masturbate in fifteen minutes or less. Keep going beyond the first fifteen minutes and see the erotic trance states that await you. Fully wake up your body and breathe to invite transformative trance states. Let go of your inner critic that edits us. Be authentic and let go of being judged because the judge gets in the way of pleasure. I invite you to explore these and other videos from the New School.


Educate your hands and your heart with the New School of Erotic Touch. The New School currently offers eighteen different erotic massage and sex education classes. As you experience one or more of these classes, you may wish to contact me for phone coaching or for private massage sessions. As a Certified Sexological Bodyworker, I am personally trained in all of the techniques offered in these video classes and am happy to help deepen your video learning.


Fire on the Mountain

Male Genital Massage
is the ultimate hand job lesson, These video lesson provide live-action instruction on how to pleasure a man’s penis. Learn the joys of giving and receiving a genital massage that often leads to a spiritual and transformative full-bodied orgasm. The difference between a hand job and this Erotic Massage is the difference between banging on a piano and playing Mozart.
Best of Penis Massage The Best of Penis Massageis the result of twenty-five years of research on how to eroticize the whole body by stimulating the genitals.This stimulating collection of footage from eight DVDs offers the full spectrum of male genital massage: lovemaking with a partner, selfloving, erotic initiation, sex coaching, exploring altered states, and good old-fashioned pleasuring. Enjoy the playfulness and creativity of men and women liberated from sexual habit.

Anal Massage 2

Anal Massage on a Man
explores the pleasures of anal eroticism, including how to contact the male G spot. Learn the art of giving a rosebud massage, penetrating gracefully, and pleasuring the prostate. Practice the strokes taught by master teacher Chester Mainard and watch demonstrations by two real-life couples.

Evolutionary Masturbation

Evolutionary Masturbation for Men
offers 20 innovative strokes and additional ideas to prolong orgasm and enhance pleasure. What part of the male anatomy gets the most touch with the least creativity? If you want to expand what is erotically possible, this class will teach you more than twenty innovative masturbation strokes that awaken self-love, creativity and heightened pleasure. The class also explores cock reflexology, self-massage, solo sex magic, erotic breathing rhythms and prolonging orgasm.

Self Anal Massage

Self Anal Massage
offers explicit video instruction for enhancing your self pleasure to include anal touch. I’ve found that anal touch is a key way to reach full bodied orgasmic states. Watch and learn self-rosebud massage, enlightened prostate massage, and simultaneous anal and genital stimulation. Discover the best positions, toys and dildos to maximize your relaxation and pleasure. Self-anal massage can be important for men’s emotional health, since the anal area is a place where fear is often held. It can also be relaxing, pleasurable and erotic.

Mindful Masturbation

Mindful Masturbation
is a stimulating one-on-one tutorial with a teacher of masturbation, Bruce P. Grether. Bruce speaks directly to you and encourages you to follow along as he demonstrates his style of “Mindful Masturbation.” Be sure to also check out Bruce’s website mm4m.org.