Life Coaching

What gets you jazzed?

What are you passionate about?

Are you living your life in a way that gets you jazzed and supports your passions?

Are you living the life of your dreams? Are you happy in your career, your relationships, your finances or your environment? Are you happy with the fun and excitement in your life? How's your erotic life? Is your spiritual life fulfilling for you? Do you find yourself holding back or settling for less that what you truly want? Do you find yourself living your life how someone else wants you to - not as you want to?

As a Life Coach, I am your advocate. I can help you discover what it is that you truly want. I know that you have the answers to every question or challenge in your life - even if those answers aren't apparent to you. My job is to help you find the answers you are looking for within yourself.

A coach is entirely focused on you. I don't judge you - I am your supporter. As your coach, I listen to you to become aware of who you really are. I am completely supportive of what your want. I help you define your values and goals. I hold you accountable for what you say you want. I am curious about you. I am completely committed to what you want in your life. I am also committed to tell you the truth. Usually this truth comes in the form of telling you where you are strong and brave. It may also come as me telling you where you aren't living your values and goals.

What is Life Coaching?

Many men have had others in their lives who have left lasting impressions. You may recall people who inspired you, guided you and helped you be the best you could be. Many men seek others with professional expertise to help with certain aspects of our lives. Perhaps you've hired a personal trainer or financial advisor or career coach. As your Life Coach, I am your advocate in all aspects of your life.

Some of us may have had negative experiences with coaches previously in our lives. Many times these experiences were because the coach had his or her own agenda in mind - not yours. As your coach, I'm not your father, daddy, dominant top or drill sergeant. We are equals contributing to a relationship that is focused on you. Consider the potential in working with a coach who is focused on helping you define and achieve your agenda. As your coach, I'm there to support you in your discovery and growth.

Although I bring a lot of experience to my work as a coach, I do not have ready answers for everything. I do help you to see your life from new perspectives; I help you see behaviors that can make you stuck. I ask a lot hard questions. I will be honest in my observations and tell you what I see. Most men are surprised that these observations are often praise, appreciation respect or seeing your greatness. Most of us aren't used to hearing such praise.

Life Coaching is an alliance that helps you produce extraordinary results in your life, your career, your business, your relationships and your erotic life. Through the process of coaching you can deepen your learning, improve your performance, and enhance the quality of your life.

My responsibility in this relationship is to discover, clarify and align myself with what you want to achieve. I encourage you to discover as much as you can about yourself. I elicit your solutions and your strategies. Finally I hold you responsible and accountable for your agreements.

How Does This Relate to Erotic Coaching?

Your body is a mirror for what's going on in our lives. Have you noticed that when things are flowing well, you don't notice any aches and pains? On the other hand, when your life isn't flowing as well, you may be aware of more pain or tension in your body. The mind, spirit and body are all connected.

Erotic Coaching is focused on your body. Life coaching covers all parts of you - including your body. My approach to Life Coaching is to integrate all parts that make up you - your mind, your spirit and your body.

There may be times when you want to focus on your erotic life. There may be other times when your focus is with another part of your life. The work we do together can address all aspects of you.

The Process

There's no standard coaching session. I work with life coaching clients primarily over the phone so this is a great opportunity for those not in the San Francisco area. The first step to begin a coaching relationship is to contact me for a free introductory session. After this session you decide if coaching is something that would work for you. If you want to continue the relationship we would schedule a discovery session.

The discovery session is a longer than usual session - usually 2 hours. This one time session is intended to help me get to know you and what you're looking to change in your life. We focus on where are you now and where you want to go. This session sets the stage for our ongoing relationship.

After the discovery session, we establish a schedule for regular calls - usually 3 40 minute calls a month. Although there are a few things I'll include on most calls - like a check in of how you are doing and what you've done since we last talked - the calls are primarily driven by what you want to talk about. We'll then focus on a couple of things that are important to you. We may look at how you are approaching a situation, setting goals, explore obstacles to your progress and find ways to support your goals.

Remote coaching can be an effective way to work toward your erotic goals. While it's not the same as an in person experience, having an opportunity to interact with a non-judgmental coach can be very helpful in working through concerns with your erotic self. For those times when seeing is better than hearing, I do use a webcam for some types of coaching. Webcams offer us an opportunity to be more connected than a voice call. I can demonstrate techniques and we can participate together. I use Skype for video and voice over the internet. This software works on both Windows and Mac and is free.

Curious? Want to find out more? I'm available to offer you a free sample session! Phone me or send me an email for more information about a sample session.

Introductory Special

The first step to begin a coaching relationship is to contact me for a free introductory session. This sessions is generally around 30 minutes and is designed to give you an idea of what coaching is all about and answer any questions you may have. After this free session you can decide if coaching is something that would work for you.

If you want to continue the relationship we would schedule a discovery session. The discovery session is a 2 hour phone call where we spend time to dive deeper into what you want to achieve through coaching. It's where I get to really know who you are. We also define the coaching relationship that works best for both of us. The charge for this 2 hour session is $150.

My coaching fees are highly competitive and reflect that I've completed significant training in Co-Active coaching and am exploring how to integrate coaching by phone and webcam into my work. I'm offering 3 40 minute phone sessions a month for $150 - that's only $50 per session. The going rate for this work is $250 and up! I'm limiting the number of phone and webcam coaching clients, so this fantastic deal is only available for a limited time. Please email me for more information about this special offer!

I invite you to email or phone me to talk more about this important work.