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Fisting Experiences

Fisting in porn is often portrayed as an aggressive and sometimes violent activity. In actuality, it’s a very gentle and caring act that requires a lot of connection and trust.

I’m blessed to have many friends in my life – and even more blessed that I’m able to have fun playing with some of my friends. Chuck is not only a great friend, he’s also like a father figure to me. There’s something magical when I surrender my hole to him. I”m offering these three videos to share my experiences around fisting and, hopefully, convey why I find it such a profound experience.

This video is an interview with Chuck and I chatting about how we found fisting and sharing some thoughts around fisting:

This video is Chuck fisting me. Needless to say, this video contains nudity and sexual content. It is not intended for those under 18 nor those who do not wish to view such material:

And another interview and thoughts after our fisting session:

7 Comments

  1. Aiden says:

    fantastic! I have experienced fisting (top) with a couple of guy over the last 2 years, and it has been amazing. I have learned a lot from your video about the energy transfer and have felt this, but didn’t really understand it until you verbalized it.
    Great effort and I’d luv to see more and learn more

  2. Rene says:

    I’ve enjoyed many of your videos. I’ve recently been more curious about this practice. Before, I was always afraid of it, and maybe because of the stigma it comes with. I’ve found myself lately, being very aroused by videos that have fisting. It seems like there is so much to learn. I’ve tried dildos of many sizes, and I sometimes struggle with those. I can easily say it probably has something to do with me releasing all stress and relaxing. I would love to experience it someday, and with time, I hope to be there.

    You are a beautiful man and enjoy all of your videos for education (and more). Please keep up the good work. Someday I would love to schedule an erotic massage with you.

  3. Duncan says:

    Hi Ed!

    I just found your website yesterday completely by chance and found out really amazing things through your excellent guidance. I sincerely admire the work you do here for us men. I don’t know of anyone else who would be as open and intimate and present in a sexual pleasure oriented website.

    You just got me interested in fisting. I just can’t get my head around how I can get my hole wide enough for insertion. The max width of my dildoes are 4,5-5cm (less than two inches) and inserting the largest one results in really small tears in the skin around my anus which are sensitive the day after. I do use a lot of lube and I’m doing it slow. I think I can get the inside of my rectum trained for bigger things but the hardest part is stretching the outer skin of my anus – I don’t know if I got it right, not a native English speaker. How do you train this area, since there are minuscule wounds that to my knowledge lead to scarring? Is this related to relaxing as well?

    Thank you for reading this and any helpful comments you might have! I wish you all the best!
    -Duncan

    • ed says:

      Hi Duncan, Thanks for your comment and I’m happy that the site is helpful for you. The muscles and tissues of the rectum will dilate to over 10cm. Of course, this much dilation is usually for medical procedures. I just point that out to let you know the body will accommodate larger sizes. The tears you’re experiencing are most likely due to going too fast and not being sufficiently relaxed. Try starting with smaller toys and gradually increasing the size. Sometimes we get in a goal oriented mode and try to take too much too soon.

  4. Duncan says:

    Hi again Ed,

    I haven’t gotten my partner really interested in fisting (as a top) and I’m worried he doesn’t know how to do it slowly or carefully – even though he’s an excellent top and knows how to read me. I just recently managed to almost fist myself but frustratingly I was just millimeters away from getting my knuckles inside me. I guess I’m not nimble enough. I kept stretching my hole and enjoyed it for over an hour. Now I’m just itching to get my partner to fist me. Do you have any thoughts on ways to get him interested?

    Yours
    Duncan

    • ed says:

      Hi Duncan, if he’s not interested there isn’t much you can do to coax him into it since you can’t force someone to like something don’t like. as an alternative, you can be clear with him how much pleasure it gives you and, maybe, he can connect with the pleasure it give you as a way to help him find ways he can enjoy it with you.

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