I pride myself on creating an experience that combines the relaxation and healing of a traditional therapeutic massage with the sensuality of connected erotic touch.
An important aspect to erotic massage is respect for your wishes and boundaries. For this reason I will always ask if you wish to receive erotic touch as part of your massage. I would be violating your trust if I performed erotic touch without your permission.
When I give an erotic massage, I mix therapeutic and erotic elements together throughout the session. Most traditional erotic massage - often referred to a massage with a 'happy ending' - can reinforce a shame-based gap between sex and healing. The healing part is the therapeutic massage and then shame because of the erotic part at the end.
All touch is sensual. All touch awakens your body to its full erotic potential. I believe that integrating purposeful erotic touch throughout a session can be a beautiful experience.
Sometimes men will finish an erotic massage feeling they didn't get everything they wanted. Usually it's because no one discussed what was desired and what would be done during the massage. Before we begin any erotic massage I'll spend some time clarifying what you are looking to experience during the massage. The best way to ensure you get what you're looking for is to ask for it! This way we are both absolutely clear on what we'll be doing together. For example, do you want genital and/or anal touch? Are there other areas that are especially erotic for you? Would you like to ejaculate during the session or keep that energy in your body?
Conscious erotic touch focused on the cock and balls can be a way to arouse amazing energy throughout the body. Many men are used to expelling this energy via ejaculation. I believe that ejaculation is a great way to celebrate our male erotic energy but there are also amazing feelings that can be produced by consciously choosing to not ejaculate. This can keep this amazing energy in our body and be with us throughout our day. The choice to ejaculate or not is up to you. Again, I like to make sure that we're clear on what we're going to do before we begin.
Breathwork is the foundation of all erotic energy. For many of us the first response we have to increasing erotic energy is to stop breathing! This creates holding patterns in the body that can prevent us from fully experiencing our erotic pleasure. I incorporate breathwork into most Erotic Massage sessions to help you cultivate that erotic energy and move it throughout your body.
So many men think that erotic play always ends in reaching ejaculation. We can spend so much time and energy focused on the destination that we forget how beautiful the journey can be. Sexual theory often discusses two types of erotic energy: excitement and enjoyment. Most of us are familiar with excitement - that continual increase in pleasure leading to ejaculation. Enjoyment is a constant state of experiencing erotic pleasure. Enjoyment, unlike excitement, can last a very long time and doesn't have to lead to ejaculation. Taoist Erotic Massage is a way to introduce your body to the incredible pleasure that you can experience from enjoyment.
Conscious breath is a key to this massage. Before we begin, I may spend some time walking you through a short breathwork instruction. As we do the massage, I'll be breathing with you to help you to remember the importance of the breath to receive erotic touch.
The anus is a source of great pleasure. It can also be a place of apprehension or shame. I offer anal touch as part of an erotic massage. We can explore pleasure from the ass in a very protective and safe way.
Many men are surprised how much pleasure we can experience from an external anal massage - without any penetration. This may help you experience anal pleasure without any concerns over penetration.
The prostate is also a place of great pleasure. I can include a gentle prostate massage with internal anal touch. Internal anal touch can also access muscles of the pelvis that can't be reached through any other way. Massage of these muscles can be very relaxing for the pelvis.
Of course, all anal touch is done with your permission in a hygienic, safe space. I use gloves for all anal touch and an individual supply of lube that is never shared with anyone else. If you would like anal touch as part of your massage, I suggest a light cleansing before your arrive.
Many men have questions or concerns about anal cleansing. I'm happy to work with you to answer any questions you may have.
Whether you already enjoy anal touch or are looking to explore this pleasurable area for the first time, please let me know you would enjoy anal touch as part of our session.
My friend An-Le offers a wonderful, relaxing erotic massage too!
I invite you to make an appointment to experience my touch work for yourself!
| Contact Ed |
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I set appointments by email or by phone. |
| Learn to Receive |
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I've found that one of the most difficult things for men to do is to simply receive. We're so used to being in control that we feel we should always be doing something. One of the best reasons to receive an erotic massage is to practice receiving without having to do anything. |
| Nude or Clothed? |
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I am happy to be clothed or nude during your massage. It's entirely your preference. Mutual touch is welcomed, but I ask that the focus stay on you and your experience. |
| Variations |
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Some men enjoy variations on erotic massage. I am happy to talk about some ways to enhance your experience. For example you may want to consider including some spanking, flogging, bondage or electrical play. |