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The Enneagram shows nine basic types of human nature. I believe that the Enneagram is useful in erotic and life coaching. Understanding your type can help us understand more about ourselves and how we interact with others. There is no 'right' or 'wrong' type. Each of the nine types have traits that can be very supportive for ourselves and others. Also, each of the nine types have traits that can get in our way.

I've included this basic type indicator to introduce you to what may be your type. After you complete the 36 questions, you will see your scores and a short description of all nine Enneagram types. Neither your responses nor any identifying information are saved anywhere. Your responses and results are completely anonymous.

By the way, I've taken the full test and I'm a Type 3. Knowing my type has helped me see a lot about myself - things I like about myself as well as things I don't like.

There's much more information at The Enneagram Institute. Please note that I did not develop this test; it was developed by the Enneagram Institute and is used with their permission.


The Riso-Hudson Enneagram Type Indicator (RHETI) Sampler’s 36 questions are only a part of the full, scientifically validated 144-question Riso-Hudson Enneagram Type Indicator (RHETI, Version 2.5).

Short personality quizzes such as the RHETI Sampler cannot guarantee that your basic personality type will be indicated, although your type will most likely be one of the top three scores in this free quiz.

We recommend that you read the type descriptions at the end of this test, and in the Riso-Hudson Enneagram books, to help you identify your basic personality type. If you would like to take the full 144-item RHETI questionnaire, it is available for $10 at the Enneagram Institute’s web site.

Instructions for the FREE Sampler

The RHETI Sampler, like the complete RHETI itself, is a forced-choice psychological test which requires you to chose one statement in each pair of statements that describes you best. For each pair of statements, select the statement that applies to you MOST OF YOUR LIFE. Do not over-analyze the questions, or try to think of "exceptions to the rule." Be spontaneous and choose the statement that comes closest to the way you have been most of the time, most of your life.

Occasionally there will be questions that ask you to make a close call between two choices. This is because the RHETI is trying to reveal areas where you have similar behaviors or attitudes. You may skip questions that really do not apply to you — but do not skip questions just because they are hard to answer. If a question is very close and you can’t decide which statement applies to you best, you can come back to it after you have completed the Sampler.

The RHETI Sampler usually takes about 10 minutes to complete. (The complete 144 question RHETI takes about 40 minutes to complete.) At the end of the Sampler, click on the Score Test button, and wait for the computer to generate a personality profile of your scores. If you have answered honestly and accurately, your basic personality type should be one of the top three scores. To confirm which type you might be, read the type descriptions in the Riso-Hudson best-selling books, The Wisdom of the Enneagram and Personality Types — the two most complete and in-depth books in the Enneagram field.

Thanks! And please remember that unlike the full RHETI, this short, fun personality test is NOT scientifically validated. We cannot guarantee the accuracy of the results of the personality analysis produced by this short personality quiz — only that it can help you begin your journey of self-discovery!

1. I've been
romantic and imaginative.
pragmatic and down to earth.

2. I have tended to
take on confrontations.
avoid confrontations.

3. I have typically been
diplomatic, charming and ambitious.
direct, formal, and idealistic.

4. I have tended to be
focused and intense.
spontaneous and fun-loving.

5. I have been a
hospitable person and have enjoyed welcoming new friends into my life.
private person and have not mixed much with others.

6. Generally, it's been
easy to "get a rise" out of me.
difficult to "get a rise" out of me.

7. I've been more of a
"street-smart" survivor.
"high-minded" idealist.

8. I have
needed to show affection to people.
preferred to maintain a certain distance with people.

9. When presented with a new experience, I've usually asked myself if it would be
useful to me.
enjoyable.

10. I have tended to focus too much on
myself.
others.

11. Others have depended on my
insight and knowledge.
strength and decisiveness.

12. I have come across as being too
unsure of myself.
sure of myself.

13. I have been more
relationship-oriented than goal-oriented.
goal-oriented than relationship-oriented.

14. I have
not been able to speak up for myself very well.
been outspoken—I've said what others wished they had the nerve to say.

15. It's been difficult for me to
stop considering alternatives and do something definite.
take it easy and be more flexible.

16. I have tended to be
hesitant and procrastinating.
bold and domineering.

17. My
reluctance to get too involved has gotten me into trouble with people.
eagerness to have people depend on me has gotten me into trouble with them.

18. Usually, I have
been able to put my feelings aside to get the job done.
needed to work through my feelings before I could act.

19. Generally, I have been
methodical and cautious.
adventurous and taken risks.

20. I have tended to be a
supportive, giving person who enjoys the company of others.
serious, reserved person who likes discussing issues.

21. I've often felt the need to
be a "pillar of strength."
perform perfectly.

22. I've typically been interested in
asking tough questions and maintaining my independence.
maintaining my stability and peace of mind.

23. I've been too
hard-nosed and skeptical.
soft-hearted and sentimental.

24. I've often worried that
I'm missing out on something better.
if I let down my guard, someone will take advantage of me.

25. My habit of
being "stand-offish" has annoyed people.
telling people what to do has annoyed people.

26. Usually, when troubles have gotten to me, I have
been able to "tune them out."
treated myself to something I've enjoyed.

27. I have
depended upon my friends and they have known that they can depend on me.
not depended on people; I have done things on my own.

28. I have tended to be
detached and preoccupied.
moody and self-absorbed.

29. I have liked to
challenge people and "shake them up."
comfort people and calm them down.

30. I have generally been an
outgoing, sociable person.
earnest, self-disciplined person.

31. I've usually
been shy about showing my abilities.
liked to let people know what I can do well.

32.
Pursuing my personal interests has been more important to me than having comfort and security.
Having comfort and security has been more important to me than pursuing my personal interests.

33. When I've had conflict with others, I've
tended to withdraw.
rarely backed down.

34. I have
given in too easily and let others push me around.
been too uncompromising and demanding with others.

35. I've been appreciated for my
unsinkable spirit and great sense of humor.
quiet strength and exceptional generosity.

36. Much of my success has been
due to my talent for making a favorable impression.
achieved despite my lack of interest in developing "interpersonal skills."

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