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Wow! Our experience on Friday was so intense, and went to so many deep levels that I am still processing it early this morning and I expect that this will continue for some time. I was particularly surprised and delighted at how tender and intimate the experience was. I previously would not have imagined this to be possible in the circumstances under which we met. Thank you again for your extraordinary work and your powerful listening of me!

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I’m moving to Las Vegas!

I offer full body massage, sensual, erotic & tantric massage and coaching to men in my studio in San Francisco. My clients leave their sessions relaxed, happy, expansive, aware and educated. I am a masseur and a Somatic Sex Educator. My erotic and tantric offerings are body based, experiential and can be through conversation, coaching or touch. I work in person or through phone calls and Skype.

I welcome men of all sexual orientations who are looking to feel more at home in their bodies – men with intention to connect their mind, their body, and their spirit. Most of my adult erotic life has been experienced through connection with men. Recently, I recognized there was more to be experienced and I have opened up to erotic experiences with women. These experiences have helped me realize the labels of gay, straight & bi restrict us. Erotic empowerment is a direct way to get beyond labels and unleash creativity to live a full and expansive life.

Because we live in a culture that condemns most expressions of sexuality, there are few places to go to explore. I hold space to come talk, be touched & massaged. For many it is liberating and healing to just have open conversation about sexuality. Being touched intimately, with the intention to learn and nourish is a welcome gift and brings ease, relaxation and much happiness.

I’ve consciously set my life to balance my left and right brains – the feeling side with the logical side. I bring this approach to my bodywork sessions by applying a mixture of energetic healing and clear, logical communication. Many men have appreciated my warm, friendly approach combined with a grounded sense of purpose.

Erotic energy is a strong life force. Like many things in life, this is a paradox; we can use this energy in ways that are not helpful and reaffirming or we can use this energy to heal our relationship with ourselves and others. I help men find erotic fulfillment through intentional body based practices.

Erotic explorers, men living with HIV and other chronic conditions including prostate cancer survivors are welcome. Survivors of abuse and men in recovery from addictions looking to reconnect to their body find this work especially helpful.

I have a special place in my heart for men who aren’t happy with their bodies. Body dysmorphia is common in men and can have a debilitating effect on our sense of self. I’ve suffered through my own body image issues and come out on the other side a stronger and more centered man.

Male energy is very fluid and not at all related to anatomy; I welcome everyone who identifies as male or wishes to explore masculine energy.

Your privacy is very important to me. Please take a look at my privacy policy.

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Recent Blog Posts

  • Transitions

    Posted by ed on August 6, 2014


    After a time of considerable personal reflection I’ve realized that it’s time for another chapter to close in my life and for a new chapter to open. I will be moving from San Francisco to Las Vegas. On a practical level, I will be splitting my time over the next few months between San Francisco […]

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  • Ritual

    Posted by ed on August 3, 2014

    My boy recently moved to a new city and is going through all the expected challenges in adapting to a new location. In addition, we’ve been separated more than usual over the last few weeks and, while the distance has brought us closer, it’s also added some challenges. Like a good Daddy, I want to […]

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  • What’s Your Pleasure Ceiling?

    Posted by ed on June 2, 2014


    Pamela Madsen recently wrote a short post about a client’s pleasure ceiling. I’ve experienced this pleasure ceiling too. I’ve encountered my pleasure ceiling usually around pretty intense body experiences and I consciously realize that I can’t process any more pleasure. There is simply too much going on at the same time and I hit my max. […]

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  • Sex Magic

    Posted by ed on March 14, 2014

    So far 2014 has been a year of change. I welcome much of this change, but any change requires destruction and that destruction can make me nervous. As this past week has brought a crescendo of potential changes into my life. I see that these changes have potential to bring a lot of answers to […]

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